When the late Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Connor, ’50, LLB ’52, was a Stanford student focused on a law career, her parents were more concerned about her marriage prospects. Businesswoman, politician, and Stanford undergraduate alum Carly Fiorina, ’76, followed in her father’s footsteps and enrolled in law school, but dropped out when she discovered she was more interested in business.
“Both followed their interests rather than the expectations of their parents or society, and both were spectacularly successful,” said Jay Hamilton, Stanford’s vice provost for undergraduate education and the Hearst Professor of Communication in the School of Humanities and Sciences.
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Hamilton said, “A key theme of this book is that you have more freedom than you know,” as illustrated in Chapter 13: Choosing your major is not choosing your career. He explained that students often feel extreme pressure to choose a major that will correlate with an occupation. But Federal Reserve data show that only about a quarter of Americans are in careers that directly relate to their undergraduate majors. In other words, a major does not lock a student into a single path forever.
“That link between major and career isn’t as strong as people believe,” he said. “In fact, 93% of employers say that what they care about is your ability to think critically and communicate ideas, rather than what your particular major was.”
One of Hamilton’s favorite insights came from the mother of U.S. Senator Cory Booker, ’91, MA ’92. In his first year of law school, Booker struggled to define the next step of his life, so she asked him What would you do if you could not fail? (Chapter 35).
“That question unstuck him,” Hamilton said. “It helps you think about what’s important to you. Even if you do end up failing, you’re going to be stronger and wiser because of it.”
Hamilton also writes about the experiences and advice of Stanford faculty, including engineer Bernard Roth, legal scholar Pamela Karlan, and biologist Robert Sapolsky. Stanford psychology professor Carol Dweck’s scholarship is the basis for insight No. 23, Grow a growth mindset, which is about “realizing that when you’re facing a challenge, it’s not a referendum on your abilities. It’s a chance for you to stretch and grow,” Hamilton said.
Nike founder Phil Knight, MBA ’62, and actor Sterling K. Brown, ’98, are among the other notable alumni cited in the book.
Hamilton said the idea for the book was born during Stanford’s long-range vision planning process and continued to evolve during the creation of the COLLEGE program, at a time when he was thinking deeply about the value of a liberal education and how to help students thrive in college and beyond. Stanford faculty and alumni, he realized, had valuable perspectives to share.
“One of the most inspiring things about being at Stanford is helping students see that they really are the next generation of leaders in their fields,” Hamilton said. “If students read this book, and five of the lessons land with them, I’ll be really happy.”